The Vibration of Crossing Over to the Other Side

In the work I do as a clairvoyant medium, I have many beautiful experiences through spirit as they connect with me, especially when I am doing a reading for someone.
 
Every reading is different, but when spirit unite with their loved ones here on earth, it is always with pure unconditional love.
 
Many times the reason someone comes for a reading is to find out how their loved one is doing after passing into spirit, or as I call it, crossing over to the other side.  They want reassurance on many things, but some of the most memorable questions are... Did they arrive safely?  Who was there to meet them?  Has their pain gone? How are they doing now?
 
Spirit, because they are still connected with us through the “love” vibration, know these are our concerns so these questions seem to always show me, that spirit want us to be reassured that they are doing well, the pain has gone, and they are happy.
 
I like to share with people the analogy, that it is like someone we love, going on vacation and not knowing if anyone will be there, that they know, to meet them.  In our humanness, we can get concerned for that traveller, because this is something new, something unfamiliar and because we love them, we want it to all be good. 
 
I am blessed to convey, that no one leaves this world alone, that they are always met by someone on the other side.  Usually, if we have been present at the end of that soul’s journey, they may have from time to time near the end, seem to be either looking in the distance at something we cannot see with our human sight, or talking to someone who is not us.  This is spirit connecting that person with what I like to call their travel buddy. 
 
This is usually, but not always, someone they know and love that has already passed over.  A family member, a friend, and even on occasions a pet that they loved and cared for in life.
 
All their questions are answered and although it may seem like a new and uncharted journey, they are being reminded that this is not the first time they have done this.  Our soul, in human form forget a lot of the details so they are reassured everything has been taken care of for them, and that they are there waiting for them, when they are ready to leave this vibration, this incarnation.
 
In the past, when someone came to see me, it was usually some time after the person had crossed over.  But what I am finding now,  because of the immense love vibration that has grown due to the ascension of souls in the past few years, is spirit are consenting those going through their transition, to come back almost immediately to reassure their loved ones all is well.
 
One of the factors I am noticing is that those here who have said goodbye to a loved one are getting more perceptive to them being around them.  What I share is that sometimes spirit send us a message in a hope we can connect to that vibration to know it is them.  Many times during a reading that clarification has been confirmed and reassurance given so that loved one knows they can
connect themselves, but in a different vibration.
 
I try to remind people that when someone leaves this world, that any memory that we have of them, connects us to them, and the highest form of connection is through the love vibration.  What I mean by that is when our memory connects with that person in spirit in joy, love and with affection, that thread becomes stronger, so the person on the other side can send back down messages that we will see, sense, feel or hear in some way.
 
Some people have told me that when they see a butterfly they know it is a certain person, the same type of bird that comes into their garden to visit them, and so on.  We just have to connect the dots to understand. 
 
Here is an example of someone who passed into spirit.  The messages I received from them for their loved one covered many things including the sense that he would “show” himself as something floating, which I interpreted as something like a butterfly, bird, feather etc.  Throughout the reading the color blue kept coming up through his memories, and because this soul was so loving and caring during their journey here on earth, they wanted to still be around in the lives of those they loved. 
 
The person sitting there then shared that just recently a Blue Jay had been visiting their garden, and they had even said, “hey I think that is dad keeping an eye on us”.  They asked “could it be him”?  We looked at each other and smiled, she then connected all the dots from the reading to get her own confirmation. 
 
Sometimes it isn’t always that simple, but when we are open, heart centred, we are more likely to sense that communication from spirit.
 
Because there has been an increased amount of uncertainty relating to this,due to people opening up spiritually, there seem to more questions than answers.  Spirit has suggested I offer some insights to those opening up on their journey.  Therefore I am pleased to offer a new service that I call Spiritual Clarity.  It is a 30 minute phone or Skype session where you can ask whatever questions you like related to my work, opening up on your spiritual journey and so on. 
 
Meanwhile I invite you to be open to receive your own connection with spirit, your loved ones who have crossed over to the other side in the vibration of love.
 
Vibrational Blessings, Debbie A. Anderson 

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