For me one of the many things I value is my friendships with others, and of course very much theirs with me.
As a friend I try to turn up, be present, in my intention at any moment when they feel they need me. Sometimes, due to other things happening in my life I am not always able to be there, right in that moment for them. But in some way I do reach out and show them the love I have in them and the belief that life will sort itself out... and so on.
The big thing for me is if I have said I will be there to help them in some way, call them or whatever I have agreed to do...regardless of whatever comes up in my life, I WILL follow through, come hell or high water. As someone once said to me... “....unless you have a death certificate there are NO excuses.”
The reason I am sharing, is that in our world at present, we talk about, mostly via social media, having lots of friends and count them as being there when we need them, or vice versa. But sadly, it isn’t necessarily the case. Someone once said to me, “In your line of work you must have lots and lots of friends?” To which I replied, “....no actually I have one or two... maybe even three people who have been there in my life, to whom I, with blessings call friends”. They seemed surprised and I feel a little disappointed. But for me, friends are a very special connection. And friendship takes work, time, commitment. It cannot be one sided in any way. As you sow, so shall you reap!
Yes, I have many acquaintances, and for that I feel doubly, if not triply blessed. I am truly not sharing this with you for you to feel sorry for me, but instead inviting you to reflect upon those in your world who have been there for you, through thick & thin, laughter & tears and STILL love you as much as you love them. These are what true friends look like, in every shape and form, so value and be thankful for them.
Which is my segue to change the conversation to Dragonflies and what they mean to me and how this all ties together.
On my tour to the Maritimes this Fall, I was blessed to have an event at Dragonflys & Dreams in Sydney, Cape Breton, on completion, the owner Sharon, blessed me with a beautiful dragonfly crystal hanging one for my window at home. And it now has pride of place next to other crystals & a stained glass piece in my office area.
The Dragonfly symbolizes change, transformation, adaptability, and self-realization. Which at this moment in our world, we are facing both personally & worldly EVERY single day. So keep that in mind folks.
As a totem it is about wisdom, and when it turns up in our life it is a reminder to bring about more lightness & joy allowing our true colors to shine through. To be our vibrational self on all levels and standing tall and powerful in that energy.
They appear in our life, when it is time to bring about change, this is when spirit are engaging us to see our full potential. To live and experience life for our self in acceptance that metamorphosis is about to occur. And with that I say “Bring it on, I am ready!”
Spirit offers up to us this self realization every day, in some form or another. Whether it is something we see, hear or discover. Maybe someone gives us something or guides us to somewhere. And in that moment, when we reach our own “Aha” realization, we are reminded that spirit are there for us, in our corner, so to speak, helping us every step of the way.
I truly pray your day, your week, and your life is filled with friendship, dragonflies & self realization and in every moment your vibrational essence turns up and is there in intention.
Vibrational Blessings, Debbie A. Anderson
Sadly after a lot of research online I was unable to find out who put these beautiful thoughts together, some attributed it to Andy Rooney, but his publicist said these are not his words. Whomever collated them we thank you, because they are perfectly vibrational.
I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.
I've learned .... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.
I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.
I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child.
I've learned.... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help them in any other way.
I've learned.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
I've learned....That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I've learned....That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
I've learned... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned...That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
I've learned....That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
This is my contribution.... I invite you to share your what “I’ve Learned” in the comments below.
I’ve learned .... That life is about living in unconditional vibrational Love.
Vibrational Blessings Debbie A. Anderson
Hands up all you healers, spirit & light workers out there that in the past week or so had a strange onset of a cold, cough, depression etc. Something out of the blue, not the norm! Be honest, please. But read this first so you are in full understanding.
Last week I attended a spiritual drumming group. I set my intention BE OPEN –PRESENT!! There were 4 drumming chants to honor the 4 directions encompassing emotional healing, the divine feminine, love & strength. It was vibrational. A day or so later out of the blue came this weird dry cough manifesting within I thought, great.. a shift.. bring it on! Now I don’t get sick, but IF I do get a snap of something I use the mantra ALREADY HEALED, so that I accept that I am not sick, but shifting something within in my divine vibrational essence.
It was ONLY after I recorded my weekly reading Vibrational Changeling that I had this epiphany from spirit who kindly awoke me to at 2.22am to share. Gotta love ‘em. (222 is about heading towards success..new beginnings, having balance & most of all being ready-Yay!)
And here comes the but... yes, everyone has a butt. There are always other elements at work in our Universe, just as there are upon Earth. The fine tuned balance between negative & positive... good & bad are within those etheric frequencies.
Let’s just step back here. In the past year or so there have been many light workers who have passed to spirit, stepped away/off their spiritual path or just been removed/eradicated for whatever reason. I don’t judge, I am just sharing what spirit explained. And here comes the BUT.... but many have been affected... or should I say infected by the dark side.
Of course most spirit workers don’t EVER want to address or talk about this aspect, or are not in complete awareness. Thus creating a resistance, that builds both within us & outside based on the influences surrounding us.
The most important element is that the Spiritual awakening that is currently occurring HAS to embody both sides of your soul to come into its divine power.. especially at this time!! So don’t suppress this, invite your psyche to read on & if it resonates with you, then so be it.
We, our self, our community, our world, our Universe need to be in balance of both dark & light!
Think of a battery, it requires a chemical medium of both positive & negative ions for the electrical energy to flow. If the cells “die” it is because it can no longer sustain a discharge current due to failure, corrosion, shrinkage & so on. It is NOT in balance, so it basically KILLS the battery...... Hopefully the light is flickering for you to SEE the correlation to our human side & why what is happening here is related.
With that explained, let’s address just three physical elements that this is affecting & why, so you can attune to it.
THROAT- holding back from speaking pure vibrational truth, communicating the divine.
WHY? Maybe you are not fully expressing this in fear that others don’t want to face their reality?
COLDS/FLU-Our body is designed to detoxify so when it is “flooded” our vibrational frequency gets washed away, we are detracted from the pathway we chose to walk.
WHY? The Chi energy is letting go of negative beliefs, thoughts, emotions, washing them away. Release it a good thing.
DEPRESSION-Accepting the powerful & profound spiritual bliss unfolding arising from within.
WHY? The ego loves holding onto anything that will bring suffering. When we let go we invite in growth, acceptance & openness.
I am not the expert on this, as I shared earlier, spirit wanted to enlighten me to my own current demise.
If you liked what you read, please share this with others who may be going through this .... be open, not judgemental & most of all keep on moving forward.... and evolving into the vibrational changeling you are meant to be!
Vibrational Blessings from Debbie A. Anderson & The Centre of A
Welcome 2019, and day 8 of the 12 Vibrational Frequencies of Christmas.
For the full information on the Twelve Frequencies of Christmas go to my blog
Day 8 - Eight vibrations of abundance
Do you invite in abundance to your life, or do you feel it should always be something others have? It’s the beginning of a NEW YEAR, this is up to you to ask “What can I do to bring this frequency into being?”
Vibrational Blessings Debbie A. Anderson
Merry Christmas everyone. As I shared with you in my blog on December 20th for the next twelve days I am inviting you to bring in twelve vibrational frequencies of Christmas.
Today is ground zero... an opportunity for you to change up your vibration.
Day 1 - The vibrational frequency of new beginnings for our world
Each day, as you embrace each new frequency, ask yourself this question...
“What can I do to bring this frequency into being?”
Vibrational Blessings Debbie A. Anderson
For any of you who didn’t know this, the strange gifts given to his “true love” within the carol “Twelve Days of Christmas” actually have a hidden meaning behind them.
As a child growing up, I pondered on the possibility of a lover giving his sweetheart bizarre gifts... where do you stash 10 lords a leaping...... and giggling at The Muppets version with Miss Piggy screeching out.. 5 GOLD rings badam-pam-pam.
Here are the twelve traditional days of Christmas and the meaning for each day.
On Twelfth Night (usually) Christmas decorations were taken down... to leave them up after that date was deemed unlucky. Twelfth Night, marks the beginning of Epiphany on 6 January, the Christian feast day when observers celebrated the visit to Jesus by the Magi - known to us all as the Three kings, or Wise Men.
Now I have explained the traditional 12 days of Christmas I want to invite you to embrace, starting December 25, Twelve new possibilities for you to consider.
Each day I will post on my blog one of the Twelve Vibrational Frequencies of Christmas for you to attract a higher resonance in 2019. I challenge you to expand each vibrational day with words you feel create further connectedness with each one of the twelve vibrations I will share from December 25 to January 5, 2019.
And.... when you are ready, answer this question to each of them... “What can I do to bring this frequency into being?”
Maybe it is an inward change or an outward action... as always, the choice is yours... when you are ready.
Vibrational Blessings Debbie A. Anderson
Author & lecturer Leo Buscaglia (known as Dr. Love) told of a time he was asked to, through a contest, find the most caring child.
What I love about these stories is the vibrational frequency that is emitted from a child’s heart. Below is the winner and some of the other heartwarming innocence that comes from children who see everything unconditionally. Sometimes we need to look through the eyes of a child to really SEE!!!
A four-year-old child, whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman, who had recently lost his
wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old Gentleman's' yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy just said, 'Nothing, I
just helped him cry.'
Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of a family. One little boy in the picture
had a different hair color than the other members. One of her students suggested that he was adopted.
A little girl said, 'I know all about Adoption, I was adopted..'
'What does it mean to be adopted?', asked another child.
'It means', said the girl, 'that you grew in your mommy's heart instead of her tummy!'
On my way home one day, I stopped to watch a Little League base ball game that was being played in a
park near my home. As I sat down behind the bench on the first-base line, I asked one of the boys what the score was 'We're behind 14 to nothing,' he answered with a smile.
'Really,' I said. 'I have to say you don't look very discouraged.'
'Discouraged?', the boy asked with a puzzled look on his face... 'Why should we be discouraged? We haven't been up to bat yet.'
Whenever I'm disappointed with my spot in life, I stop and think about little Jamie Scott.
Jamie was trying out for a part in the school play. His mother told me that he'd set his heart on being in it, though she feared he would not be chosen. On the day the parts were awarded, I went with her to collect him after school. Jamie rushed up to her, eyes shining with pride and excitement.. 'Guess what,
Mom,' he shouted, and then said those words that will remain a lesson to me....'I've been chosen to clap and cheer.'
Stories taken from the 3rd Serving of Chicken Soup for the Soul
As we draw closer to that season where some of you may feel overwhelmed unnecessarily in relationship to money, I want to share with you a vibrational way to attract abundance and let go of ANY struggles you have in your conscious mindset over accepting wealth and riches to yourself.
You don’t have to choose between being spiritual and having money!!
Money is a spiritual asset.
The deeper connection you have within your heart with anything, yes, money included, invites it towards you, because it IS a vibration. It is just the way we choose to bring that vibration into our life. As it was shared with me many moons ago, the word money has an “m” before the word “one”, followed by the letter “y”.
Take a moment to ponder on that, because everything is about the I AM. I am deserving .... or not..... inviting in the vibration of your one-ness.
It following letter was something someone shared with me many moons ago. Yes, I have revamped it, and you of course are invited to add to it further, based on your perspective. In other words, this is not the ONLY way to manifest prosperity.
Vibrational Blessings Debbie A. Anderson
Please accept this letter from me apologizing for thinking you were hard to get and ultimately thinking I didn’t deserve you.
I know your abundance is unlimited and I can receive it, because I am now open to take delivery of whatever prosperity you send to me.
I’m sorry for thinking that if I had more of you I would feel guilty. I choose to love you positively, and have opened myself to receive you with love and gratitude.
I know you are there to serve my highest good.
I love you & look forward to our new relationship.
I love you money.
Sunday, November 11, 2018 at 11am is sequential 11.
This is a time for you to be present and intentional in your thoughts as manifestation on your focus (thoughts) is what will transpire.
Seeing the number 1 repeating itself is a VERY positive sign, and a VERY powerful vibrational time for focusing your heart centred thoughts on what you want, need and desire in your life.
It is a time to release any negative emotions that maybe holding you back from achieving the transformation within you.... so as the movie FROZEN states... let it go, let it go, let it go.....
This gateway of the duality of the Oneness is open to inviting us to walk on our pathway of Universal love and acceptance. KNOWING, yep, that’s right, knowing that whatever you either positively or negatively think (the dual edged sword) influences us at this time. I know I will be open to whatever new and exciting synchronistic activation spirit sends to me, in total Vibrational Trust!
I have shared with many of you, that this year, 2018 is the year of shedding off anything that is holding us back. Digging up any skeletons that we buried without releasing... letting go of ANYTHING that no longer serves us. This eleventh month, just like the eleventh hour in decision making is very integral... and opening up that energetic gateway into our spiritual realm of completeness.
Remember the only thing you own is your thoughts, so be wise to what you invite in at this time. This is a VERY clear and concise message from our angels, guardians and spirit helpers/guides. Therefore your thoughts can and will manifest into your reality.
So, what will you take the time to focus on at 11am on November 11, 2018?
The list is infinite and only you and your beliefs will bring you into your vibrational enlightenment.
How do you manifest at this time? Easy, sit in peace and quietness, (yes, that means turning off your electronics) at 11am (wherever in the world you live) and set your intention to what you want, need and desire within your life... your world... our Universe. The choice is yours.
Sit and listen to what that intentional vibration means to you. That means connecting in your heart, not your head.
Take some nice gentle breaths. Breathe in what you need, want, desire and as you breathe out release what you no longer need-anything that doesn't serve you. Continue doing this over and over again.... slowly.... listening to your heart as you feel what it is sharing with you.... do this for ONE MINUTE... yes, wow, that long!!!
If you are NOT sure that what you want is right for you.... add to the end of your request.... this or something to my highest good..... or this or something better. That way you are not locked into anything other than what spirit feel is what you need based on your request (smile).
When the minute is finished, thank your guides, helpers, angels... the Universe... take one last nice cleansing breath, and let it go. Now go and enjoy the rest of the day knowing you have taken the time for that connection with 11 : 11 : 11 : 11.
Vibrational Blessings, Debbie A. Anderson
In the work I do as a clairvoyant medium, I have many beautiful experiences through spirit as they connect with me, especially when I am doing a reading for someone.
Every reading is different, but when spirit unite with their loved ones here on earth, it is always with pure unconditional love.
Many times the reason someone comes for a reading is to find out how their loved one is doing after passing into spirit, or as I call it, crossing over to the other side. They want reassurance on many things, but some of the most memorable questions are... Did they arrive safely? Who was there to meet them? Has their pain gone? How are they doing now?
Spirit, because they are still connected with us through the “love” vibration, know these are our concerns so these questions seem to always show me, that spirit want us to be reassured that they are doing well, the pain has gone, and they are happy.
I like to share with people the analogy, that it is like someone we love, going on vacation and not knowing if anyone will be there, that they know, to meet them. In our humanness, we can get concerned for that traveller, because this is something new, something unfamiliar and because we love them, we want it to all be good.
I am blessed to convey, that no one leaves this world alone, that they are always met by someone on the other side. Usually, if we have been present at the end of that soul’s journey, they may have from time to time near the end, seem to be either looking in the distance at something we cannot see with our human sight, or talking to someone who is not us. This is spirit connecting that person with what I like to call their travel buddy.
This is usually, but not always, someone they know and love that has already passed over. A family member, a friend, and even on occasions a pet that they loved and cared for in life.
All their questions are answered and although it may seem like a new and uncharted journey, they are being reminded that this is not the first time they have done this. Our soul, in human form forget a lot of the details so they are reassured everything has been taken care of for them, and that they are there waiting for them, when they are ready to leave this vibration, this incarnation.
In the past, when someone came to see me, it was usually some time after the person had crossed over. But what I am finding now, because of the immense love vibration that has grown due to the ascension of souls in the past few years, is spirit are consenting those going through their transition, to come back almost immediately to reassure their loved ones all is well.
One of the factors I am noticing is that those here who have said goodbye to a loved one are getting more perceptive to them being around them. What I share is that sometimes spirit send us a message in a hope we can connect to that vibration to know it is them. Many times during a reading that clarification has been confirmed and reassurance given so that loved one knows they can
connect themselves, but in a different vibration.
I try to remind people that when someone leaves this world, that any memory that we have of them, connects us to them, and the highest form of connection is through the love vibration. What I mean by that is when our memory connects with that person in spirit in joy, love and with affection, that thread becomes stronger, so the person on the other side can send back down messages that we will see, sense, feel or hear in some way.
Some people have told me that when they see a butterfly they know it is a certain person, the same type of bird that comes into their garden to visit them, and so on. We just have to connect the dots to understand.
Here is an example of someone who passed into spirit. The messages I received from them for their loved one covered many things including the sense that he would “show” himself as something floating, which I interpreted as something like a butterfly, bird, feather etc. Throughout the reading the color blue kept coming up through his memories, and because this soul was so loving and caring during their journey here on earth, they wanted to still be around in the lives of those they loved.
The person sitting there then shared that just recently a Blue Jay had been visiting their garden, and they had even said, “hey I think that is dad keeping an eye on us”. They asked “could it be him”? We looked at each other and smiled, she then connected all the dots from the reading to get her own confirmation.
Sometimes it isn’t always that simple, but when we are open, heart centred, we are more likely to sense that communication from spirit.
Because there has been an increased amount of uncertainty relating to this,due to people opening up spiritually, there seem to more questions than answers. Spirit has suggested I offer some insights to those opening up on their journey. Therefore I am pleased to offer a new service that I call Spiritual Clarity. It is a 30 minute phone or Skype session where you can ask whatever questions you like related to my work, opening up on your spiritual journey and so on.
Meanwhile I invite you to be open to receive your own connection with spirit, your loved ones who have crossed over to the other side in the vibration of love.
Vibrational Blessings, Debbie A. Anderson
If you are interested in finding out more about whether a Spiritual Clarity session would help you, click on the link http://www.vibrational-energy.com/spiritual-clarity-session.html
Debbie A. Anderson
As we awaken the vibration within, so the healing begins and we learn to love and live.